Greetings Dear Human

IT’S ALL ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS

Welcome to
kaseja wilder Counseling Services

This website is an invocation toward healing for all beings, including your healing and mine.
I have yet to meet a person who is has not encountered some kind of trauma in their life. Just living in today’s world can feel impossible, and for many of us, the feeling is personal and maybe this sense of being unworthy came in when we were very young. For each person I work with, I can never know exactly what will help them to see the way out of the forest of fear that we do not belong. But I know there is a path out because I have seen it—for myself and for others. We can all learn that we are lovable and worthy no matter what.
No matter what we’ve survived and no matter what we’ve done.

I call upon the ancestors that called us forth! They are still available to us to move toward integration, healing, and peace.

We do not need to have a spiritual orientation to recognize that we are the product of people coming together with dreams, with visions, with desires that created more people who had dreams, visions, and desires. Work with me will encourage opening up your desire for integration and wholeness, to reveal and move toward the dreams that you have, maybe even dreams that you haven’t even dared bring to light yet.

Using my decades of mindfulness practice and the ways I blend evidence-based modalities brings a unique alchemy creating a space for transformation and healing. I have sat with people while they are dying, I have attended people while they are highly disassociated while knowing they are safe, I have watched people rise up from trauma so deep they thought they would never be able to heal. I know that we can heal. Holding this paradox is key to our integration. I bring my own experience of having felt broken to being a sovereign agent in my own life, and my years as a psychodynamic therapist to the table. Together we can unfold the vision that brought you forth.